Debt Management – Do it Yourself!
Most people are in debt. Actually it is what makes it possible for a few rich people to be rich. There are three main areas to throw your energy into if you want to get out of debt:
- Earn more money
- Reduce your expenses
- Change your psylogical situation
No. 1 and 2 are pretty much self explanatory and it is hard work maybe over a long time. But what most people don’t know is that no. 3 actually is the most important factor to look into if you want to get out of debt.
No. 3 does not demand any debt management plans consolidating your debts. Every body can do it – you don’t have have to believe that it works, but looking into your own psychological situation will help you a lot getting out of debt.
The very basic point is that there are two categories of people. There are people who grew up learning to be a victim WITHOUT KNOWING IT! People with this inner structure fails to take responsibility and that is why things get out of hands. This is the introvert structure. Poor and powerless.
People with the opposite inner structure are called perpetrators. They are much more likely to take responsibility but when things fail they will blame others and they normally do not care much about others. This is the extrovert structure. And this is most often rich and powerful persons.
Inside ourselves we also have this dual structure. One part of us introvert and the other is extrovert. BUT as it is very hard (not impossible) to be balanced and master both sides, we often chose one side from early childhood and suppress the other.
The ideal situation is in fact to master both sides because mastering both sides will supply you with a bonus – and that is more inclusiveness, more love and bigger insight in life!
More details later…